[VIDEO] “I’m a Perfectionist, You Know…?”

“I’m a perfectionist, you know…?” This is one of the favorite excuses of why we don’t finish something, we don’t continue what we started, or even don’t start at all.

 

You may know it very well…

You are sitting for hours above an unfinished article for your blog and you continue deleting, updating, perfecting it and still, you are not satisfied with the result. In the end, you delete all the text, because it’s EMBARRASSING, stupid, imperfect. Actually, it is all for nothing …

And your idea ends up in a trash and it will never see the light of day.

Just because you are a perfectionist.

Or another example…

You want to start a business, you even have an idea, but there’s a lot of confusions and BUTs. You’re trying to figure it out all in advance, so that it WOULD BE perfect and safe, and this thinking takes months and your business continues to exist just in your imaginations.

In reality, nothing is happening and you are just standing on the same spot. But you are saying to yourself that you will start as soon as you perfect all the details… but the truth is, that with this approach you will never start.

If this is your case, if you are a perfectionist, you want to have a perfect plan or a perfect result, then you need to know one thing that may surprise you.

Perfectionism is not a virtue

Perfectionism is not a virtue, it is not a strong aspect. Perfectionism is just a fear pretending to be a virtue.

Fear that if you’re not perfect, your results will not be accepted, you fail, you will be rejected. You believe that people will laugh at you because you will not reach such success as you would like. You wouldn’t earn as much money as you would like, you wouldn’t make the impression what you want to make, and so on.

And so, the perfectionists let themselves paralyze by fear and disguise it under the excuse that it’s the right way, that they only want to be perfect, that there’s nothing wrong with that.

Actually, there isn’t anything wrong with it, but if it holds you back so much, Ithat these things hamper your life or business or make them stagnate completely just because of your perfectionism, it’s time to do something about it.

It is much better to start right away and to start it in the way you can do best at this moment, even assuming that it is imperfect in your eyes.

Perfection cannot come out of anywhere on the first try. Handling something really great means, that you’re trying it, perfecting, rehearsing, making better, and proceed step by step, until you can tell one day that you are really great at it.

But you know what?

You have to begin by accepting the fact that you would not do the thing perfectly on the first try and that it is all right. Imperfect SOMETHING is better than a perfect NOTHING. :)

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stanislava.mrazkova@gmail.com
lives her life to the fullest and makes her dreams come true, even the craziest ones, every day. A few years ago, she decided she didn't want the days to pass by in vain like sand in an hourglass. She is a woman, a mother of two daughters and one son, a partner of a great man, online marketing expert and a successful entrepreneur.

Stania is an author of a Beach Business book, Beach Business online course and an eBook From a Stressed Out Mother to a Beach Entrepreneur. She inspires people how to live freely, happily and to the fullest. Teaches them how to use the potential of the internet and online marketing, so that they can start a journey of their dreams and run their business from a beach.

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